Be careful how you see the world...it is that way

Sometimes you are on the top of the world. Your exams are good, you are confortable in your job, your friends make you happy, you have the perfect family that makes you laugh like a kid, they are perfect maybe a little bit crazy...but perfect anyway. And then...something happens, and all of this fall down. Why? What have happened? My life was as I wanted to it would be. A person? All of us have this person who breaks all our plans when he/she wants; and I say myself: you are an independent girl and you have a lot of people who love you. Your life doesn' t depend on one person. Maybe...a broken dream? Sometimes we put too much hopes in something but we don't achieve it. Nobody is perfect. I still haven't find the reason of my change of mood. However, I have a intuition...humans have feelings, a lot of this...and the feeling which has caused my change of mood is the disappointment ...oh my god! A movie can disappoint you, a book can do it too, even a friend, a teacher, an exam, a t-shirt which looks nice but actually is very unconfortable, or when you realise that you aren't good doing what you love. I think I'm very close of my objetive...the worst disappointment is when you disappoint yourself. When you look at the mirror and you see a different person with a completely different behavior...only to seem "ordinary" only to...fit in a group? STOP. It's something really stupid, nobody should change you because you are marvelous just the way you are. If you like write then you must write, if you like eat then you must eat, if you like dance then you have to dance, if you like sing then you should sing, every moment, every second...don't care what people can think about you! And it is because you were born with a big talent that can't be wasted. Catch the option that life brings you! Listen to your heart! What is it saying? It is saying that if you think that you can...then you CAN. Believe in yourself.

NEW TECHNOLOGIES. (WHATSAPP)

The problem that I will explain now is: the power of technologies to separate people. I mean, nowadays wherever we go, our Smartphone are. We have a really big dependence of Whatsapp, Twitter, Facebook etc. Polls say us that it's because of the social integration. The human race needs to be accepted. In fact, in the pyramid of needs (economic theory of Maslow) the love and belongnig have the third place. But, are new technologies improving our relationships? Or is it separating us bit by bit?

The first solution that I chose is the next one: less whatsapp and more speaking to each other directly. That's my opinion as from my experience the most of people acts very different by whatsapp that face to face.

What is the problem against my solution? It's very simple. Whatsapp makes our life easier. The speed of new technologies are perfect when you have a important question or if you want to date with a friend. Furthermore, new technologies allow you to be in touch with people who are in the other side of the world.

 

From my view point, reducing Apple, Samsung, Huawei's publicity could be another solution. Humans (especially teenagers) are so influenced. Every day we are seeing adverts which incite us to buy new mobile phones or tablets.

However, there is a problem: the big international business will never stop their publicity, because their only one preoccupation is earn much and much money. That's like big pharma which have the cure to a lot of illness but put it really high prices while there are a lot of people dying because of this diseases. People are very selfish and unfair.

 

Concluding, we have to stop this "computerization of the soul". As far as I am concerned social webs are separating people more and more, it's better call someone than send a sms. Is a whatsapp better than a conversation in a pub? Or is a icon better than a hug? I don't think so. We have to stop this because we can't allow that technologies dominate us. People have to take the control of their life. Your life is your life and you have to enjoy every minute because it's awesome. I will try to use new technologies only because of a necessity.